Have you ever been hurt by someone so close to you?
And that got you wondering if their love was for real?
Or have you ever hurt someone special to your heart, and that got you wondering if they would still believe your love for them?
Offenses put a question mark on our love and commitment. And until they’re resolved, that silent question may remain in our minds for long, and affect our friendship and deep sense of love.

Restoration of pure love is a deep desire in every heart. Until we believe we are forgiven, we will not believe we are still loved. And that can stand in the way of our relationship, and affect our sense of security.

This also applies in our relationship with God. We all have sinned and come short of His glory. And that separated us from Him. However, He sent His Son to come and give His life for our sins. And reconcile us back to God. Apostle Paul tells us that Christ has lavishly forgiven us:
“In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of his grace”
(Ephesians 1:7, ESV)

Christ has already forgiven your sins – past, present and future. He is not holding anything against you any longer. He isnt imputing your sins against you. No!
“It was God [personally present] in Christ, reconciling and restoring the world to favor with Himself, not counting up and holding against [men] their trespasses [but cancelling them], and committing to us the message of reconciliation (of the restoration to favor).”
(2 Corinthians 5:19, AMP)

Not only has God forgiven you, He has chosen never to remember your sins ever again:

“I, even I, am He Who blots out and cancels your transgressions, for My own sake, and I will not remember your sins.”
(Isaiah 43:25, AMP)

… “Their sins and lawless acts I will remember no more.”
(Hebrews10:17, NIV)

God’s forgiveness is a fact. However, you must believe and receive that forgiveness in your heart. Because until your heart believes and receives God’s forgiveness, until this reality is settled in your heart, you will feel too unworthy to be the object of His affection. You will feel God couldn’t love someone like you. Until you “feel” His forgiveness you won’t “feel” His love!
Until you sense His forgiveness, you won’t accept His love. For receiving His forgiveness is the first step towards a love walk with God. If you feel unworthy of His forgiveness, you will also feel unworthy of His love. Until you accept God’s mercy, you won’t live in the consciousness of His love.

Could this be what’s standing between you and the sense of God’s love for you?
Why hide under self-condemnation and shame and guilt, when you can come forward, in faith and receive forgiveness for your sins, even right now?
For shame, guilt and fear can’t live together with love. It’s either you live with guilt and shame or you allow God’s love to stump them out. You can’t settle for both.

Perhaps, you’re trying to feel His forgiveness. God doesn’t deal with us along the lines of feelings and emotions. These aren’t reliable. We connect with God through our knowledge and faith. So believe His forgiveness, then reach out and receive it by faith.

I pray for you, that you won’t live another day without the assurance of God’s forgiveness, and a restored sense of His love for you. In Jesus Name

I woke up this morning to face a rude accusation from a neighbor. He accused me of colluding with power supply officials to switch his phases with mine. And what was his reason? My light was brighter than his. But unknown to him, my bright supply came from a phase that’s taken from a different pole. Even though another neighbor came out to defend me, his mind was already made up, and he kept on with his accusations and names calling.

Have you ever been falsely accused?
And no matter how much you tried to explain, you couldn’t make anyone see your innocence?
Or maybe you are under false accusations right now.

The effects of false accusations can be so devastating. This is, especially owing to the fact that your reputation and your name are at stake.
Accusations wound your self-worth or ego. The goal of false accusations is to weigh you down with condemnation and shame, to create suspicion in the minds of others about you, and to make you sink into loneliness. Your inability to make anyone see the truth can make you feel so helpless or powerless.

In trying to deal with accusing voices, you must know the source of your accusations. In Revelation 12:10, the Bible shows us the source of all accusations.

“…For the accuser of our brothers and sisters, who accuses them before our God day and night, has been hurled down.” (NIV)

Satan is called the accuser. He is the source of all accusations – whether they are happening in the secret, in your mind or they’re coming from outside, from someone else.
His work is to steal, kill, and destroy. Satan is after your joy and peace. He wants to make you depressed and sad. And he uses whoever yields themselves to him as willing tools.

The accusations are not about you, but the accuser. So take it easy on yourself. God Who sees in secret knows what the truth is. And you also know that you’re innocent. So don’t allow those depressing thoughts to spoil your day. Cast them down. Resist the devil’s accusations. Stand in the place of prayer and challenge those lies. For there’s no condemnation against those who are Christ’s.

You may be thinking of what others may be thinking about you. That’s their own problem. If they choose to believe you, that’s good for them. If they don’t, that’s their business. Don’t go through life hurting, because some persons have chosen to doubt you. Go on with your life, knowing that God is on your side. God’s report is different from theirs. And His report is what really counts in your life.

Cheer up dear one. For God is for you; no one’s accusations can stand against you.